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MJ, FYI, pooping all over somebody, then denying it's poop doesn't impress me at all.

W.

I apologized. And admitted i was wrong. Not sure what more u want from me.

Not a damn thing, dude - I've had too much from you already, lol!

W.

As Brian has noted, some of us in this group, who are not ABDL, use some products normally sold to that "specialty" market when there is not a corresponding product in the mainstream diaper market. I should note that several of the super absorbent "specialty" brands have at least one version available in plain white plastic.

To me, "super absorbent" is any diaper that functionally holds more than my favorite ConfiDry 24/7s. One such diaper I have used is the Bambino Bellissimo which has a rated ISO capacity of 5,385 ml. Unfortunately, that diaper has prints and is not available in plain white plastic. If it were, I would get that diaper in plain white plastic. This diaper is expensive and I use it only infrequently - when I need more absorbency than a Dry 24/7 and will be in a situation where it would be very inconvenient or socially embarrassing to have to change. I usually use it with an added booster pad to achieve an even longer period of reliable absorbency. I say "reliable" because I don't want to have to worry about it. This "specialty" diaper, with a booster, lasts for me about the same time that I would get if I double diapered, but at less cost than double diapering. The prints are not my choice, but no one is going to be looking at my diaper, with the possible exception of my wife.

--John

MikeJames, no offense taken. Wetters, thank you too- I do try.

I do also have a couple of washable bed pads myself. They have a slightly rough backing so they don't crumple up or slide around too bad, but it does still happen. I'd try the goodnite ones myself if I didn't already have the washable ones.

Whatever drainage I wear - nappies, sheath and bag or sometimes catheters, I always have a washable bedpad over the mattress. I can't get on with the disposable sort but then again only very infrequently does the bad pad have to do anything useful as I have leaks under control.

Interesting info. Lots to learn here as I navigate this issue. Glad not everyone misinterpreted what I meant.

I bought a reusable waterproof mattress cover and with the diapers I've been in good shape. I haven't had to do morning laundry and my wife and I are sleeping better. We laid in bed last night doing kegels together until we fell asleep. She told me she had some incon for 8-10 months after giving birth and that none of this is that big of a deal.

Thanks again for educating me here. Maybe some good night's pads could be useful as extra protection when traveling.

So yeah, it's all my fault - Not.

W.

Maybe we could just move on and let it go?

Let what go?