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im not sure why you sent me a private message brian?

Brian, cease and desist the PM'ing of members.

You have already been told not to, and this latest report of one, shows you to be harassing members.

I may not be staff here, but I will NOT hold for members harassing other members, like this.

Edit: Further on the what doing to cross the line:
Viewed your profile and found this:

Interests: Diapers

Sorry, but that's not quite the interest to have, on a support site full of people that want to NOT be wearing them.

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Hello, my name is Scott, and physically, I am 40 years old. However, thanks to abuse, and being special needs, mentally and emotionally, I am equal to about 6-10 years old.

Brian, let me try to explain the purpose of the ISC forum this way: When I go to a Chinese restaurant, I don't want or expect to be force-fed Italian food. Whether I hate Italian food, love it, or am somewhere in the middle isn't relevant to the scenario. I don't hate AB/DLs (I don't hate anyone, actually). That lifestyle just isn't my cup of tea, and I take offense to it being forced on me when I go somewhere where it shouldn't and isn't intended to be. I'm getting the idea that the only opinions and people's rights you value and respect are your own.

IMHO, this go-around has continued long enough and I'd like Schoppy to put an end to it, preferably by banning you from the forum. Your relentless social battering and spin-doctoring project an appearance that you don't want to use the ISC forum for its intended purpose. Those of us who reject AB/DL have the right to do so without being harassed and intimidated. Your rights end where everyone else's begin. That applies to everyone, and that's how a functional society works.

W.

P.S. Thanks for your kind words, Scott!

at first i thought the pm was from schoppy. i got a notification in my email and it was from schoppys email (i guess thats how notifications for pm's work). but its from brian.
i can forward on the pm if needed it just struck me as odd that he did it after being asked not to.
and wasnt brians username "baby brian" to start out with? that shoulda been our first clue.
like wetters, i dont hate anyone. whatever floats your boat, but i didnt come here for that. i have no interest in it and dont want to read about it.

Wow did this topic explode today. @ Wetters this is twice in a short time someone has done something towards you. Sorry you have been attacked in this way. This is probably one of the reasons, people leave the forums.

My two cents, is when people start expressing ab/dl behavior or PMing people about it, it is time for them to go.

Okay, let me first say, that me is very sorry for my rants, and all in this.
Sometimes, being how am, it gets hard to not reply when thinking someone is really getting mean.
And not following forum rules, and PM'ing people after being asked not to, is mean, in my books.

It's easy for me to get into rants against people like that, cause of what my signature says. Even though can run some forums, and help out on others, still very much a little kid trapped in a grownup body, and it makes me get a bit emotional and defensive. Sorry, but that's how me is, and it does show in my posts a lot on forums, which is why not really so active of a poster here. Yes, there's times, when not too sure how much welcome here me is, cause of how am, and that also is why not say much.


Wetters, as for your P.S.: *turns red and hides face in shirt.*

Yes, tend to get embarased a lot...lol

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Hello, my name is Scott, and physically, I am 40 years old. However, thanks to abuse, and being special needs, mentally and emotionally, I am equal to about 6-10 years old.

Yeah, and kinda loosely-related. The over-defensiveness would be somewhat humorous, if not for the overbearing and sly delivery. He told me in his pm that he wanted to "help" and "enlighten" me, lol!

Scott, you are a kind, intelligent, logical and loyal person. Don't put yourself down or sell yourself short. You're one of the good guys.

W.

Thank you, Wetters.
Just that, when typing, usually have to think things out, and just type from what thinking.
Lots of times, forget to change some words, so usually comes out like a little kid typing.
Reason it worries me, is done got banned from a couple support sites cause of it.
And, no want to get banned from here, too.
So, that why not see many posts from me, unless, someting gets going, that me sees as wrong, and have that "have to say something" feeling.

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Hello, my name is Scott, and physically, I am 40 years old. However, thanks to abuse, and being special needs, mentally and emotionally, I am equal to about 6-10 years old.

WOW

I get called away for some family matters and come home just to get a few hours of sleep.

I want to hear from people on just what all is going on here.
I almost feel like I walked into a twilight movie

If anyone has anything they would like to share please feel free to PM me or forward any PM's to me.

RIght now ,and about 1/2 asleep, I just want to know what happened before I make any rulings?

I will be checking into the forum every couple of days as I get time.

Schoppy

Understood, and thanks again for the feedback.