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 Post subject: Networking
PostPosted: Mon Apr 06, 2009 10:45 pm 
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Now , im 22. and for me the biggest issue to deal with is girls :oops: now im a nice guy and all but most girls i find cant get by the whole has to wear a diaper thing , ive tried on several occasions and even after long drawn out online relationships and waiting for the right time in person , many girls cant get over it . i have found a few but unfortunately they havent worked out . i was thinking a good use would be discussions on successes or tips to that effect. i mean all my friends seem to think i should have a long term gf by now cuz im a good guy but really...its hard... any input would be nice thank you all very much , your posts have been all helpful and have made me feel more secure!


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 10:58 pm 
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Hi Welcome to the Board :D My Name is Sandy I'm one of the Moderators on this site. And one of the only REAL active females on this board :D

This Subject has away of coming around . If you read through the post it has been discussed before. I have to say it is a hard one. And my heart truly goes out to a person like you. I'm very blessed to have a Husband as kind and caring and open minded as I do. I know I've said this before. And I know I'm going out on a limb here :shock: But Maybe the Diaper sites are a place to go. For some of us who have been rejected many times. Maybe it wouldn't hurt to post something on a AB/DL site. I know I stumbled into a site sometime back called "Diaper Crush" it's a AB/DL site for people looking for a relationship. As Twisted as it sounds :? at least the AB/DL world looks up to people like us :roll:
So maybe going at it from that angle you would be using your disability to your advantage :shock:

It's just a thought :wink: .....................Sandy :)


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 08, 2009 9:55 am 
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Don't give up hope finding someone who cares and is able to deal with your incontinence. I had given up hope, hadn't so much as dated a woman in over a dozen years and had become comfortable with having to live the remainder of my days alone. Out of the blue I met a woman who has totally accepted me. She has a "what's the big deal" attitude regarding my incontinence. I guess if someone truely likes or loves you they aren't going to let lack of bladder control stand in the way. I'm in my 50's so if there is hope for me then a young person such as you should have lots of prospects. Sandy might be right about checking out some of the AB/DL sites but I'd try Mypage or Facebook or one of the other blog sites and check out some of the groups available to join. There are incontinence clubs as well as diaper clubs galore. It is a good way to meet and share with incontinent people around the country. There will be AB/DL people mixed in with the incontinent people but you will learn how to distinguish between the two. Best of luck to you.


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 Post subject: Thank you both
PostPosted: Sun Apr 12, 2009 4:11 pm 
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your words were all encouraging thank you , i certainly wont give up :D but i was thinking most of the people with diaper fetishes were guys , u think i could find a girl like that :oops: it is a little wierd to think of that way but im not opposed to it , it would be nice to have someone so caring and understanding about it. thank you both for your input :D


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 Post subject: to sandy
PostPosted: Sun Apr 12, 2009 4:14 pm 
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HI , i tried looking for that diaper crush site and all i found was porn lol , could you maybe post a link if youve seen any posted anywhere ,thank you so much for your time and effort :)


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 12, 2009 8:45 pm 
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I only saw that site once :shock: I had no need to go back there :wink: Maybe it no longer exists :?: As far as women to men with a diaper fetish I've seen this discussed before. And the conclusions that I've seen seem to point that it's around 60/40 There does seem to be more men but from what I've read Men tend to be more open/daring then women. (makes sense)Women tend not to come out with it as much as men.

On another note when it comes to incontinence Women tend to have a much higher rate of incontinence then men :idea: (so I've read :?: )

Here's a thought for you What if you put an add in the personals on craigslist? Something like Male suffering with incontinence issues seeks Female who understands. Who knows :D It just might bring a women who's in the same vote together with someone else who understands.

..............Sandy :)


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 12, 2009 10:50 pm 
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thats a good idea actually, i should really read through alot of the old posts it sounds like there were some very interesting topics brought up! , and ill try that it cant hurt right :) thanks again sandy


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