Padded53 wrote:
Depending on how much you void when you have an accident you might be able to just wear a very inexpensive pull-up with your boxer briefs over top. That way you could use the bathroom normally but if you had a minor leak you would be protected. Also, visually to you, and anyone else, you would just be wearing regular boxer briefs. Yes of course, you would still know you were wearing protection but you would have the peace of mind that you would not have an embarrassing "external" accident.
this is what I do, wear regular ladyshorts with a lace trim over the pull-up. It makes me feel a little bit more confident. Sometimes I wear regular lingerie, but that is just for a short time at home for special times with my husband or just for me to feel good