Thanks again everyone, we had a great vacation. I brought my own supplies, but was posivtively surprised by what the supermarkets had in stock as well. Tena and Seni were well available (but not the tena flex, which I prefer), even in little towns (the lokal "Katerina Supermarket" on the Peleponese/Mani is great!).
On beach days I just wore a bikini. I have some control, and taking a dip in the sea every hour is something I would do anyways. On the days we went touring I wore the flex, or a pull up depending on the timeframe and wheather or not it would be rocky roads. Most roads turned out to be rocky, so I had a lot of spasms. In the evenings an always discreet boutique under a summerdress when we went out for dinner, and took a change with my in my purse. Night time just like at home a Flex, but one with little more capacity than usual. This was because of the anticipation to drinking some retsina or tsipouro, and just to be on the safe side. No leaks occured, also I slept lighter than usual and woke up once a night to go to the toilet. Maybe because of the strange environment I was a bit more aware. Anyways it didn't interfer with enough rest.
I divided my diapers and pull ups in all 3 suitcases we took with us, and returning home we used that extra space for souvenirs
And.... in Greece you have no trouble trowing the diapers away, there were bins in the stalls on every toilet (mostly because they usually don't flush the toiletpaper, and ask you to throw used paper in the bin
) But this is quite handy and I guess a positive change for gentlemen with incontinece problems. My husband joked that if he was to become incontinent he would move to Greece because of this. Downside is usually less privacy when it cames to sound, because of gaps on bottom and top of most of the stall doors, or because not all doors have a (working) lock.
The other downside was the heat, but with enough changes and linnen dresses it was doable. I think we will return to Greece, and my anxiety about travelling for longer that just a business trip with regards to being incontinent has vanished