I’d like to offer my thoughts on a snug and confident fit... First, I open the Abena M4 or Comfy Dry 24/7 up completely and raise up the leak guards. I back up to a wall in front of a mirror (if available) with the diaper behind me at the proper waist height and lean into it. I adjust it side to side to make sure it’s straight and equal on both sides. I bring it up in front and usually start with the top left tape as I’m right handed. I tape it to a “normal” position, using the wetness indicators as a guide. On a 24/7, it’s a little more difficult as they don’t have wetness indicators. I then tape the top right side, taping it snuggly, while pulling in my tummy a little. Getting the diaper on straight is quite important but not critical. It’s a personal challenge for me... Then tape bottom left and then bottom right, snug but not too tight. Unless I flood, which happens occasionally, the leg seal need not be too tight. Adjust until comfortably snug. I’m pretty active (work out, gardening, house cleaning, etc) so sometimes I use a long strip of wide tape over the tabs to reinforce the attachment. Sometimes the tabs will work lose or tear if taped too snuggly. When I’m going to work, I wear a compression panty (not too tight) or pantyhose to keep it snug and in place. They also keep the noise down and in place if the diaper gets soaked. It’s all about compensating for leakage issues with confidence and dignity. I’ve been incontinent nearly all my life and have pretty much been able to maintain my privacy. Also, each person is different, with different needs and abilities. With a little practice, I suspect most people develop methods and solutions that works best for them
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