mattwp wrote:
have you looked at the abena pull ups they have also northshore has a line of pull ups they both have some good ones have a look at them and or give them a try may be worth it to try them
Thank you! I have not tried Northshore yet. I did try Abena pull-ups a year or more ago but found that Tena are very absorbent and fit my waist and hips well. They are also available at most drug stores (at least in Texas), and are less costly. Unfortunately, I have occasional issues with very heavy flooding that most pull-ups have difficulties containing that much fluid quickly. For those times I insert a Tena pad, which has solved that leakage issue. Combined cost is excessive though, but there are times when an Abena M4 is inappropriate for my attire.
I’ve tried thinner tape on diapers but for those heavy flow times, they bunch terribly, making them very conspicuous! Pads in panties is a disaster waiting to happen, even with the most absorbent that I’ve tried.
It’s a learning curve and I continue to try different solutions.