JMS, I am super happy to hear that you guys are gaining ground in your marriage. Your situation is very close to mine with some minor variations. I have had a lot of feelings of inadequacy since I began having trouble with my bladder. I have a lot of anxiety about it and how she always seems to stay away from the diaper as if it's going to make her incontinent too. She doesn't want to hear it, see it, or know anything about them. It's been really frustrating to me. I try to talk to her but we either get interrupted by the kids or when we're alone together in bed after the kids are in bed, she's alive and talkative about whatever she's talking about, if I bring up something to do with diapers she's like "I'm falling asleep,goodnight" I've had sex once this month.......I'm 33......it's not enough, I have a healthy libido when I'm not plagued by ED........she tells me that she doesn't want to do anything because "you'll have problems (ED) and it'll take forever" so we just don't do it unless she's really in the mood.........
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