Ellyn wrote:
...A Tena pull-up with a super Tena Intimate pad works well for bunching, slimmer fashions, capacity, and such but is terrible for floods, which happens more and more lately. If it’s a slow flow, that system is great!
Maybe a cloth liner in a tab diaper will work well but there’s still the issue of travel. Dealing with wet liners is about the same as simply wearing a cloth diaper...
Actually this is where the small cloth pad is so great. As you well know cloth is incredibly thirsty and will soak up floods and distribute them quickly. Likewise for travel the inexpensive cloth pads work well too. They are only $1 (if that) each and therefore they are essentially disposable, obviously more than a Tena pad but they perform much better. And yes, it does increase the cost by simply throwing them away but it still seems better than a leak. Another good thing is that they are relatively small and you can easily fold one up to carry in your purse on the way to the bathroom. It's also easy to carry quite a few of them on a trip in your suitcase.
Ellyn wrote:
I need a well built, very high capacity, extremely “thirsty” diaper that won’t break down (bunch) when wet. Am I asking too much? It seems to me that most toddler diapers are much more durable than adult diapers... Before my hips got so wide (my teens), I could easily fit in a large toddler diaper. I don’t recall any bunching with them. Tena pull-ups don’t bunch....
The only thing I might suggest there is to try using a baby diaper as a "pad". I've done it before and it worked OK but I have very small floods so your results my well vary. I do know that they will hold a surprising amount but I don't know about their acquisition rate. At least it would be cheap to try it though, just might work.
And finally, I'll second what was said about Northshore's customer service and chat, absolutely first class and easy to work with. And Hey, don't forget to ask Northshore for a sample pack of the colored Supreme Lites. I know you won't believe this but just seeing yourself in something other than yet another white diaper will really lift your spirits a bit, at least it sure did for me.