@michael_dahlke I think you're right and I will have to wait to drink my tea later in the day. It's probably for the best as I have a long commute to work and like you said, there could potentially be a traffic jam in which case I will have an accident with a full bladder. It's so disappointing though b/c I have grown up drinking a cup of tea every morning as a ritual. It is one of my only treats as I do not snack during the day and rarely eat sweets.
I'm considering starting off w/ half a mug to see if that makes a difference. Logically, it should cut my bathroom trips in half?
It's so frustrating! I wish they could find a cure for urge incontinence but I don't think it's well understood still, being a complex problem with physical and psychological roots. I've done so much research on the bladder and haven't come up with much. I know for women they say declining estrogen is linked to bladder issues.