I am so thankful for your support. You have all helped me processing what happened.
My prognosis to stay dry is good according to my psychologist. My incontinence came after the trauma of sexual abuse.
It has taken me twenty years to process it to the point where I could take my body back.
The sicko that came into my apartment could easily have ruined it all if it had happened earlier.
The police did not take me seriously, but I forced them to register what happened,
so if he does it again, they know he has this as a modus, and how to identify him.
I have also called the part of the ER working with psychiatry and rapes with information about this guy, so they early can detect a pattern.
I have overcome this fairly good now, as I manage to take my apartment back cleaning the places he has been.
I hope it is ok for you that I stay in touch with you even as I now am dry.
I do have 25 years experience of being incontinent, so I might be to some use.
This forum is so precious. Nice people and no weirdos.
Keep it going schoppy!!!!!!!
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optimist on Tue Apr 23, 2019 3:05 pm, edited 3 times in total.