Fiacs: Great job with helping out your Mom's friend, your experience reminded me of a few that occurred a while back...
Once was when my Wife and I were going to a long duration outside event. Before we left my Wife mentioned that she wasn't looking forward to having to find and use a Porta-Potty (she hates them) but knew due to the length of the event that she would probably have to. I knew that I would be fine with my usual protection (at last a benefit!) so I said that she could just wear a diaper and she wouldn't have to use the Porta-Potty. A strange look came over her face and I could see she was imagining wearing a diaper and was seriously considering it. Then that look changed dramatically, and at that point I could see she was imagining actually (horrors!) using the diaper, and that was it, she said "No thanks, I'll be fine". I didn't push the offer.
Another time a very good friend of mine had recently undergone prostate radiation therapy and was running off to the bathroom what seemed like a couple of times an hour due to the minor urges he was having. I mentioned to him that he might consider a "pad" and I now remember that I got both of the same looks that my Wife gave me followed by an abrupt and final "No". As in the first case I didn't even consider pushing the point.
These instances showed me that there are actually two additional stigmas attached to diapers other than just the awful "D" word. First there is wearing a diaper, hmmm maybe not so bad. But then there's actually using it, WHOA! game over, I'm not going to do THAT! Interesting psychology at work there, and something that we diaper wearers went through, easily or not so easily, at some point.
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