Living with incontinence does get easier with time but hopefully, you will regain the continence! try not to think about the "diaper" its just underwear once you find a product that you trust it really does just become underwear but that takes time. The added stress of the Heart issue certainly does not help but once you have an understanding of that issue your stress should reduce and that may help your continence. In time I hope you find your normal preferably dry but remember the incontinence does not define who you are!
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