www.incontinentsupport.org

My husband and I retired in our early 70s after high-level careers that began in our early 20s. When we were young and middle-aged, our 12-hour days and brutal commute took its toll on our sex life. I reverted to bedwetting @age 25 after having been dry for 11 years. Waking up in a wet bed @0-Dark-Thirty, then having to leave it for a clean up after we got home past 7 @night was a gruesome addition to our daunting schedule. Now that we're retired we can indulge his preference for morning sex and the wet beds (his bedwetting has always been infrequent and minimal in volume) are now manageable and I'm acquiring more self-esteem in relation to that. We don't need to feel rushed anymore, and our age and ability to perform have served to empower us.

Wetters, that is very nice. Congratulations on having better intimacy despite the challenges of incontinence. It is encouraging to read a success story.

--John