Needing some guidance
Posted: Sat May 29, 2021 2:50 pm
I started being incontinent about 4 months ago following bladder neck surgery. If I am standing or active my bladder will completely empty., Sitting or laying down it stops. I have not learned a good method of dealing with this as I get my pants wet regularly.
I have depends pull ups and heavy pads. I have been using the pads during the day because I hate the thoughts of changing the pull ups in public restrooms and taking pants and shoes off. I thought I could learn to control my fluid intake and control it that way but so far I have not been consistent with predicting when I need to change pads. I am getting too where I don't want to go out because of this. I got rid of all my tan shorts and went to all blue jean because I didn't think it would show as bad. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
Thanks
I have depends pull ups and heavy pads. I have been using the pads during the day because I hate the thoughts of changing the pull ups in public restrooms and taking pants and shoes off. I thought I could learn to control my fluid intake and control it that way but so far I have not been consistent with predicting when I need to change pads. I am getting too where I don't want to go out because of this. I got rid of all my tan shorts and went to all blue jean because I didn't think it would show as bad. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
Thanks