tangerine wrote:
The changing facility might actually be a specialist toilet that has a hoist and changing bench + other features (sometimes a shower). If you need a big clean up that can be handy or if you need to lie down, although they are generally deigned for people who need to be physically moved using a hoist on to the toilet or changing bench. So a standard accessible toilet might be just as good for you if all you need is a bit more space, but if you need to lie down or whatever then this space might be helpful. If you are in the UK they are called 'changing places' toilets or 'space to change' toilets. They can be very large.
Yeah for me, I just use the regular stalls. I'll use the handicap ones if available for the space but changing in a regular stall is fine too. I prefer to lean against a wall when changing standing up, though I can do it without. It's probably quite obvious to anyone coming in to see my feet pointing the "wrong" way in the stall when I'm leaning against the door or side wall. Not that I really care if people know at this point. The rustling plastic and sound of the tapes already makes it pretty obvious that some dude is changing his diaper in there. That said I'd probably use a special bathroom with a key if it seemed easier overall. Asking for the key wouldn't be an issue for me.
As far as accommodations go, I wish all public toilets had a bin of some sort, or wall mounted box, for disposal. My only real issue with changing in public is that in order to throw away the wet diaper you have to carry it out which isn't very discreet. It's one thing for me to be comfortable with people hearing me change, or even if my diaper gets exposed for a second to a stranger, or if you can likely tell I'm wearing a diaper because of my wardrobe, but it's another thing altogether to be seen holding a used diaper. I don't know why, but I don't like people seeing that. Often, I'll bag it and carry it out in my backpack and throw it away later. Hard to put into words but I guess I don't really care if strangers know I'm wearing diapers, but I don't like being seen with used ones. Just a mental thing I guess.