Drew81 wrote:
I'm nervous that people will look, point and stare when changing in public and I think it'd be a long time before I could change in a gym locker room.
Likewise though, it's my parents and friends I don't want to find out. My wife obviously knows (she also woke in the wet beds and saw the wet trousers before I went the nappy route). My parents though, I'm not sure I want them to find out, although I'm sure they will one day.
I know how you feel. I was the same way. Like I said, I'd spent ridiculous amounts of time hiding in a stall waiting to make sure no one else was in there. You'll get used to it though. One day you'll just have an epiphany and be like "WTF am I doing in here? I have shit to do" and you blast through your change and be on your way.
They gym thing is different. That took me a while but it's kind of out of necessity. The shower and batrhoom area of my gym is seriously gross. One thing I've learned is that a leak is worse than diaper exposure. If my diaper needs to be changed at the end of a workout then it gets changed. It rather do it in the open near my locker than in the gross bathroom stalls there. The floors are always soaking wet and it's just gross. I find, really, no one looks at you in the gym. I know people see it, but no one cares. And when they see it, more than think "look at that freak/loser wearing diapers" they probably are thinking "poor bastard, that sucks".