Changing wile out

[Überaktive]

I write from the Finnish perspective, so take this as a travelling with incontinence tip.

I tend to use university and library toilets. They are usually free to use: other places here usually have toilet-fees and most bus-station or metro (in the capital) restrooms are icky. However, I luckily very rarely have to change as I usually can make it to the toilet in time, or then I take the liberty to urinate in a bush or ditch. Illegal, yes, but if one is discreet and does not do the business on the street, no one really gives a flying finch. And I don't like emptying my bladder into a diaper if the problem is that no toilets are around but perfectly fine bushes or woods are. I have a health issue and when you've gotta go you gotta go.

Talking about discretion, for me the problem is usually the tape-sound (opening and readjusting for using a toilet), but I've never had anyone say a single word. It is also possible to mask the sound. If other people are urinating outside the cubicle or washing their hands, they probably donät hear the tab crackling.

I've learned to change and re-adjust in very limited space and prefer to do it standing against the cubicle wall. Sometimes disposal is easy, there are often bins inside the cubicles as they also contain sinks and paper hand-towels, but of course throwing a used diaper away if one has to carry it into out of the cubicle can be tricky. I usually roll & tape it into a tight bundle, listen carefully for a quiet moment and just very quickly drop it into the bin. Train toilets are easy for disposal when travelling by rail, but the standard toilets are crammed and often rather messy, so it is best to find the train's disabled WC which has enough room for a wheelchair and for changing children's diapers, so they suit incontinent adults' needs very well. All trains, at least on the long distances, have these facilities.

[WetDad]

I find American restrooms as a general rule to be very nasty. I would never think of laying down on such a floor, so I taught myself how to do it standing up with my back against the wall.

[justej]

i 100% agree wetdad.
i would NEVER lay down in a public restroom in the us.

[JDinVirginia]

Unfortunately our American public restrooms, particularly the mens' rooms, are to be avoided whenever possible. In addition to the lack of adequate sanitation, the stalls offer little privacy compared to restrooms in most of Europe.

--John

[B Brian]

Same here. I once found a US restroom so nasty I quickly learned how to change a diaper without leaning up against the toilet partition. (It's an incredible challenge).

[MSUSpartan]

That sounds like quite a trick Brian. How do you get a snug fit?

[B Brian]

Not really. It's mostly memorizing where the tapes end up when you normally put a diaper on- before hand.

Start by positioning the diaper around one leg first and put the lower tape where it would normally go. Next, pull it up so the diaper is snug around that one leg.

After that, put the other lower tape where it would normally go too. Note, it's unlikely either of the tapes will be just right, but should be close enough to start with.

With the lower tapes stuck on, adjust the diaper for a better fit, the stick the two top tapes on in the right spots. Readjust the lower tapes, voila.

Of course this is much easier said than done, so good luck. I know I needed it.

[Porkchop]

I try to use family restrooms, pre-tape the diapers lower tapes and pull the diaper up like underwear. Then I tape the top and re-dress... best I can do with my limited mobility... but I am learning to manage.