Hi Tom. Allow me to echo what most have already said.
- Cloth overnight is fantastic. While bulky, no more leaks for this side sleeper.
- Cloth during day is quite good as well. If I'm out for an extended time, then I switch to disposable so that I can deal with the used diaper in a quick and efficient manner.
- Stuffers for extra absorbency. For the "inexpensive" route, you can use terry cloth towels like these: https://www.samsclub.com/p/12-pack-xl-w ... od24590620.
- Invest in a good diaper pail. This is the one that I use: https://store.buschsystems.com/40000124 ... lift-white. I used to use a 5-gallon type of paint bucket, but after a few weeks, they developed perma-ammonia odor; not pleasant.
- I do laundry every 2-3 days which keeps both the supply replenished and the odor to a minimum.
- For washing, I recommend a presoak cycle for every washing. Sure does seem to help!
Lastly, I can't recommend enough the DependeCo diapers at:
http://dependeco-adult-diapers.com/. They are absolutely fantastic. And the owner Monika is very helpful. Moreover, while I never liked all-in-one's (AIO), Monika's AIOs have made me make the switch! So my daytime diapers are AIOs (with various stuffers depending on my level of hydration). For night time, I use the all cloth, doubled up. And I recommend their pull-on diaper covers. They are thinner than Gary pants, but very nice in the high heat environments that I spend most of my time in. Great night's sleep ever since!
Best wishes!
ILuvLA.