Thank you guys for all of the helpful information. I had the good fortune of a gentleman contacting me privately and I found that private communication was a bit more comfortable. With his help, I was offered advice on how to layer, fold, and pin a cloth diaper. I also got advice on shopping and purchased better pins, plastic pants, and diaper inserts. My goal was better night protection and dry sheets. I didn't expect the my comfort level to increase so much. I had a few minor leaks at first (very heavy night wetter) but as I got better I've eliminated them.
I am still amazed at how much more comfortable I am. Freshly laundered cloth is infinitely more comfortable than paper and plastic. I have taken to using a cloth diaper not only at night, but also at home, including all day, when I have no plans. And on several occasions I have worn them outside for informal events when baggy clothing was appropriate.
There are two words I thought I would never use in my adult life - "incontinence" and "diaper." I can deal with the first, but I'm still having problems with the second. Sure, I've been using "protective underwear" but with cloth, pins, and plastic pants, make no mistake about it - it's a diaper. When I catch myself in front of a mirror, with no trousers, I still feel my face flush with embarrassment. Even writing these words is very humbling.
Despite this confession, and all of my reservations, I have found that a cloth diaper is in some way comforting - something I don't understand but I sense others have had the same experience. I find this even more embarrassing.
Over the next few months I will be adding to my supplies. I tried both Birdseye and gauze, and definitely have a preference for the gauze fabric. It is so soft and fluffy and incredibly comfortable, even when wet. I also appreciate greatly reducing my trash and more than doubling the life span of a case of disposables.
One other note - I read about the uncomfortable bulk of a cloth diaper but this was not an issue for me. I was already using a thick padded disposable brief and over the years become adept at concealing it with oversized clothing. Sure the diaper is bulky but not uncomfortable and it offers superior protection.
I will be returning on occasion to this forum for the ton of information that is available but I value my privacy and anonymity and wish to be an infrequent poster. Thank you all for sharing your advice, experience, and gentle support. I appreciate it so much.
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