The best products i use are the stretchy briefs which i use the pads with. The briefs i use and quality washable stretch incontinence briefs which i then use with incontinence pads. The briefs come in packs of 3 and are cheap. I am not to keen on diapers.
I get mine from a online business called
http://www.arelle.com which is a small family run business who has been doing with incontinence products for 23 years (about us page).
I recommend them but do can you offer any more sites to me so i can check them out?
Cheers