Hi everybody,
it´s an interesting subject to discuss, and I share some of the opinions posted and also diferr from others, but anyway, here I go with my humble point of view.
First of all of course this is a supporting site for IC persons, and each one of us has a personal opinion about the ABDL thing. In most sites like this one some of them disturb, bother, lie and make offensive and stupid comments, that´s true. But there is also between them serious and sensible persons that if behave as such kind of empathy and respect I don´t think they must be directly banned just for the fact of having that fetish. Besides, that´s not a meeting couples site but in the case that someone meets a person in the net and finish having an affair I don´t see it so bad, for example, let´s imagine I have a fetish with blond girls, if I meet one in the internet and after years finish marrying her anyone would have the absurd idea that I married that woman just ´cause I like blonde chicks? It´d be a bit surrealistic don´t ya think? Of course that just for intimacy I´d love that she´s blonde but never have married someone for the only fact that she is got a hair coloured like my fetish! Because to marry someone is for having found an actually wonderful person that fits you and her and love yourselves as familiy, couple and best friend, that´s for me the meaning of marriage. And I say this because I have a female friend in wheelchair for an L3 paraplejia and fond a guy who was devotee (the disabled fetisH) and are married now and she´s waiting a kid! I mean the fetish were the prime reason to begin they relationship but has it resulted a bad thing? In my opinion it hasn´t. The same I think if some of us meet here a man or women not IC but respectful clever and honest and sincere, why banning him just for that without knowing nothing about hin and how he really is? I defend just the few abdl´s sensible and polite, all the others I´m 100% favor to not letting even write a single post without a simple personality test to prove that he is nit a BAD APPLE.
About the nicknames, mine is Lord Duque (Duque is in spanish the title of Duke but is my nickname since school and all my schoolmates call this way, so if it´s not my name it´s my real life nickname) and the avatar is the logo of a spanish film called mutant action that consisted in a terrorist band of disabled people that make their attacks to beautyful people and gymnasts with muscles as vengeance to the society that betrayed them (that´s why the logo is red star with disabled wheelchaired person but showing up his arms with a Kalashnikov) and I think it should be the symbol of all the disabled who are insatisfied and fight to improve our situation, and if not listened with words, so listened with ACTION!!! Apart I wouldn´t be ashamed at all to be called by my real name: Fernando. Cause I don´t hide my condition except if it´s for diputing a job, or something where I know that wearing diapers can mean a disadvantage (and i hate doing that) my close friends (males & females) know and if someone prefers not to be friend because I wear nappies I like to know it as soon as possible because If I hide it and when the other realizes quits it´s absurd, specially because a person who chooses a friendship just for the wearing of diapers of the friend is a indesirable miserable guy, and I prefer to know it as soon as I know him because if he cares and diapers is most important of my persona whole and all I could offer? Better to show diaper the 1 day, because if he is too important that he can´t go with anyone diapered, that´s the time to know cause I don´t wan´t a nazi. When you are a kid is hard, and I wetted bed till 16-17 (and I knew then that with that age a half stops before eighteen and the other half....will keep wetting and using diapers for all life) and it´s when I knew that the 1% that wets at 18 wets during the rest of their life. Well I mean my first sexual expiriences were at my 13, 14 years at night, with a diaper adult and mostly wet. I becaome very empathic with incontinence and some D/L but not too important. and 7 years ago car accident, L4,L-5 & L4-5 . then no walk, 6 months to recover, both kinds of IC. And know I walk almost normally the fecal incontinence just happens 2 or 3 times a month, and ok.
Rope wrench is a very diplomatic guy, Baby Brian as very cooperative, respects others words, comments things importants
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and always with the most refinated politeness.
So. internet is anonymous, incontinent people talks of this here for knowing that it´s bettween us people with the social tabu of having protection, I personally wouldn´t have problems to let me know with my realname but I can understand that some people does it for fear of beinng recongnised, but in the other hand there are the wicked obseded guys whom is better.
I expect to have exposed a point of view enriching for all of you and talking the matter we share is a pleasure and hope that it´s been utile to someone, for me that´s more than enough.
My best regards to rope wrench, baby Brian, dp66 and all of you!
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Until the next time!
Lord Duque